You Can't Always Get What You Want...
... And you definitely shouldn't be happy to get just what you need!!
I used to be the living proof that you can only fall in love with someone if two conditions are verified:
1) Physical attraction and
2) Matching personality
These criteria are in a specific order due to chronological reasons, i.e., first become aware of the exterior looks and only after that can check for interior compatibility. I have no problems in admitting this, though it might sound superficial... You know it as well as me!!
I'm also the living proof that you can't fall in love with someone that you don't find attractive, ever kissed someone in that situation?!
Please bear in mind that everyone has their own attractive-o-meter...
I used to be the living proof that you can only fall in love with someone if two conditions are verified:
1) Physical attraction and
2) Matching personality
These criteria are in a specific order due to chronological reasons, i.e., first become aware of the exterior looks and only after that can check for interior compatibility. I have no problems in admitting this, though it might sound superficial... You know it as well as me!!
I'm also the living proof that you can't fall in love with someone that you don't find attractive, ever kissed someone in that situation?!
Please bear in mind that everyone has their own attractive-o-meter...
8 Comments:
A little violent to say the least... anyway... it is always true: You can't always get what you want... and you always want what you can't get! BEHAVE MY DEAR FRIEND.. or don't! :P
we never get what we want.our dreams,expectations are faced with reality...and we-always-have to compromize because of that.is that bad?hmmm...that's just life. falling in love-it's always a big thing.sometimes the "blink in an eye" matters,sometimes a big smile or sexy lips or a very intelligent conversation... conditions really matter when we're rethinking about our emotions (afterwards) in a reasonable way.. or when we feel hurt.is that wrong?hmm... that's growing up.and one more thing:not every "falling in love" becames "a real,deep love".because for love there's no reason... you just LOVE;-)a polish poet says:"don't wait for the flowers and a call;when you're not wanted-don't shout,don't cry;the most important is-that YOU LOVE
someone!" so-as a young(25y.in a week) polish girl;living(a kind of messed up life) currently in chicago(totally by myself);trying to make my dreams come true-despite all the difficulties which sometimes make me feel blue;being hurt because of falling in love once in a while... i'd say:ask yourself what you want and try to get it.because you might have only one chance to get it/her.and love... love is just beatiful:-)and sometimes really hurtful.but we have only one life.and love is what really matters;-)so-when the sad days pass by-smile, and get your life,let's fall in love... Monika C.(i'd say an old friend from taize).good luck Pedro!
I'm forced to disagree with my "significant other"... i don't think that you always want what you can't have...sometimes, maybe just a few times, that amazing thing happens and you have exactly what you want...so don't give up hope my dear friend!;)
Ok Ok... Maybe I didn't explain myself... Sometimes you can get what you want! I have a beautiful girlfriend whom I love a lot, and she is what I want... But anyway... It's just a way of saying things: "Estou bem, aonde eu não estou porque eu só quero ir, aonde eu não vou..." Bla bla bla!
Kisses and Hugs
Uma menina, para merecer o nosso amor, não poderá, em nenhum momento, assumir-se como uma rameira de carreira. Tem de ser sensível, íntegra e fofinha... Claro que estas qualidades serão sempre potenciadas por umas tetas de porca bem fidalgas e umas irrepreensivelmente bem definidas estalactites de langonha a escorrerem-lhe beiça abaixo, e assim! PELAS BEIÇAS DESSA PUTA ABAIXO!!!!!! DESSA PUTA QUE NAO TEM KUALKER EXPLICAÇAO , MEU DEUS!!!!!!!! Ai ai...(suspiro)
Well, mistankenguy... for what it's worth, you just made my life look easier... and for that I should hate you coz my life is still by no means not easier nor should it look so... Anyway, do I know you? Or do you know me? Coz i've just come back from Germany in a trip that brought many feelings back, feelings that I've stored away somewhere... and I'm also drinking a bit (to cure it)...
Ohhh...and by the way... you just mentioned in your last paragraph the 2 best descriptions i also use for being in love... i have a 3rd one but that i'll keep for myself if you don't mind!
Russo - Perhaps I'm a bit lost in translation but I just wrote a blog about this very subject. I didn't go as far as marriage but was engaged to the wrongest of men-the details of which are in the blog but to summarize. The physical attraction was there, certainly...and even though he remained just as cute in the 6 six years we were together, he became less and less attractive to me as the relationship unfolded. He didn't know how to take care of me, or treat me right and I made excuse after excuse. It was the worst of me. He was the exact opposite of me and I believed it to be true love. Now I'm dating someone who is similar to me but not matching personalities. Truth is, when its right, its right and you could be complete opposities. I feel like i know people of all the possible variations. http://superplanb.blogspot.com
good luck russo. nice blog!
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